So as of August 26th I am a mommy of two girls and Amber is a big sister! I was worried about how Amber would react to not being the only child anymore. She has always had all of the attention from EVERYONE! Not only that but she rarely is around other kids so she is not used to having to share her toys. So when Elizabeth finally got to come home Amber was so confused. She loves Elizabeth to death. She will walk up and give Elizabeth kisses and hugs but she does NOT like it when other people are holding her. If someone is holding Elizabeth, Amber will get upset and either whine or cry until they pick her up to or put Elizabeth down. Although she is jealous, Amber also does not like to hear Elizabeth cry. Whenever Elizabeth cries it really upsets Amber. So I do not know what the normal interaction is for a toddler having a new baby in the house but I think she is doing pretty good.
I love being a mommy and I love both of my girls with all of my heart…BUT….I feel like I am losing my mind. I spend some of the time at night and some time during the day crying because I just get so frustrated. I do not know how to take care of both of their needs at one time. I always feel bad when I am feeding Elizabeth and Amber needs something because I cannot help her right at that moment….BLAH Hopefully it will get better soon.